Love is Simple…it is not filled with conditions, restrictions, expectations or demands it is just love.  Unconditional love begins with loving the self and sometime setting our own boundaries is the most loving thing we can do for ourselves and for others.  How honest and clear in our thoughts and communication with ourselves and others with what we want?  Are there things that need to be healed within your being so you can create the life of your dreams? We know that attachments will weigh us down while releasing what no longer serves your highest good will helps you ascend. The choice is yours, and it is a choice, do you want to learn through love or do you want to learn through pain…choosing the path of love feels so much better.  Sometimes finding the space to simply be love and be in love requires us to remove the old scaffolding of thoughts, patterns and triggers that do not serve and are not love; we need to take that leap of faith and vulnerability if we want a different kind of love in our lives.

We are all energy and vibration and music inspires me, some more than others.

 Tell Me What you want, Shawn Madden Updated link

Tell Me What You Want is the title of a song, asking a lover what is wanted and the words stopped me in my tracks.  The song wasn’t written for me and yet I took it as an invitation from my lover, as I listened it was so personal I was forced to think about it, what DO I want and what do I need?  The song invoked a clarity and honesty of expression that surprised me and I was compelled to write it down and share it.  I wrote the part below months ago and I have gone back to many times since writing it as a reminder of my hearts truth.  Here is my clarion call to the universe, from an open heart.

I want everything, and yet nothing not freely given. I have been calling for my partner in love and life.  I offer the invitation for my partner to come to me whenever ready to step into this uncharted space of the heart and soul and not a second before.  To hold a space for the courage to unabashedly jump into the abyss of the uncertainty that is love.   I offer the space with a compassionate detachment and without expectation.

I have called for the one that is divinely best for both of our highest selves on this path.  To hold a sacred space for Union, the space where the two can become one and in the perfect moments all else fades away.  Where the ignition of that spark and combustion from that union creates a state of bliss.  To be a mirror reflecting the most shining aspects of ourselves back at each other and to embrace the moments when the ego affords the same lessons for growth in the dark aspects.  Helping one another clear the old ego triggers and patterns.  Living with pure definition of love.

To be honored as a goddess so that I can treat my man like a god.  The receptive space where I can pour my nurturing, loving tender heart, deliver the caress of my hands, and fill the space between my arms in an embrace.  The canvas that I can simply be an expression of love, where I can simply be my most effortless expression in the moment.

For our smiles to creep into the corners of our eyes and make our souls shine.

For starters, want spend time with me, delight me, make me think, laugh, and feel so that in return I can do the same.  The want and desire to keep finding new ways to delight and excite each other; touches that light my soul on fire, neck kisses that make my knees weak.

I want to love with every ounce of my being and have it returned without expectation, guile, manipulation…the truth of Love is nothing but love, I want to touch the essence of love and never again confuse the beauty of what love is with anything else.

I want to be the one my partner chooses above all others, comes to me as a conscious choice and continues to make that choice.  One who is ready to be naked of soul, vulnerable of heart and can see through the confusion of the past in to a new space of possibility.

To be held, heard, inspired and to be an inspiration, to live, love and laugh together.  To honor each of our hearts calling and be pillars of support on manifesting our dreams…holding together the space where our lives can dovetail together, making each of our lives better for it.  To be a safety net and a shoulder in the face of challenge and when the sadness creeps in.  To recognize that we both hold scars and wounds, some that reach to the bone, but to honor them with compassion and loving kindness to move past them.   To hold and be held in a space where truth, honesty, communication are essential for both of our spiritual, mental and emotional growth.

I want the space for it all without being limited to what my mind can currently imagine. Life is too precious to be wasted on doing things that I do not enjoy.  I want to be love and my beloved to hold that space with his divine presence.  I invite that being in to this sacred dance that is life and love with me.

This is what I want.